New Year is a time of miracles and expectations. At this time, I want to think only about pleasant things. Positive thoughts, if directed in the right direction, will triple their presence and cause a flood of good emotions. Psychologists warn: on New Year’s Eve, you should refrain from ambiguous phrases and negative words.
At the New Year’s table I want to talk. To the sound of chimes – drink a glass of champagne, having managed to make the most cherished wishes. Many, for fidelity, write them down on pieces of paper, which they then eat, washed down with sparkling wine.
Phrases and words that are advised to forget
On New Year’s Eve, people try to have time to speak out, to say the most important words. Psychologists advise to be more attentive to what we say on New Year’s Eve. There are phrases to avoid.
For example: “I want to stop getting sick.” Experts believe that this phrase should sound in a different version: “I wish you to be healthy all year.” It seems to be, it seems, but there is confidence that the second option will benefit. This also applies to another phrase: “I want the boss not to fire me.” We think and say differently: “I wish to continue working in the same team.”
Magic words from childhood
Let’s remember what we were taught by parents, kindergarten teachers, school teachers. They taught us to thank, to say “thank you”. The magic of these words is difficult to convey, it is easier to feel it. At the festive table, do not forget to thank fate for all the good things.
Agree, it was more than bad. Even notorious whiners and pessimists, when they are asked to mentally decompose the bad and the good into two parts, are convinced that the second is more significant.
As a rule, when thinking about financial well-being, people use verbal constructions that are unlikely to be useful: “I want to get rich” or “I want to finally have no money transferred next year.”
We must try to build phrases of this type with gratitude. “I thank fate for the help”, “I thank for my financial well-being”, “I thank for the prosperity that makes me happy”. Experts believe that in this case, you can count on luck.
Words that are advised to be eliminated from everyday life
There is a group of words that set an unnecessary tone. They are called parasites. They have no place in New Year’s wishes. Such words and phrases include: “in short”, “as if”, “like that”, “in general”.
Experts also advise against using words and phrases: “just”, “maybe”, “at least”, “maybe”. And one more thing: on this magical night before the New Year, try to forget about the existence of the “not” particle. Her not should be.
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